Book helps men repair marriages through Christian principles

The idea that women are beyond understanding is a predominant excuse for men’s unwillingness to help fix failing or broken marriages. This fraudulent thinking is so accepted by the world that it’s become a common joke. In the book "Discovering the Mind of a Woman,” author Ken Nair illustrates how biblical principals prove that men not only can, but are commanded to, live with their wives in an understanding way.

The book reveals relationship-altering concepts that renew and restore marriages. Nair says when a man follows these principles they work every time, and he claims he has seen hundreds of restored marriages, many even after divorce. “That’s not Ken Nair boasting, but pointing to God’s living word that can breathe new life into even the most broken relationships. We just need to better understand what God says about marriage that’s often misunderstood in the text or not taught at all,” Nair said.

“Our spirit has a language of its own: that language is our emotions, which, as men, we don’t fully acknowledge, and they’re fleeting; yet we hope to understand our wives who are 100 percent attuned to their emotions, and where they live all day.” Nair says, “If a man can’t identify his own spirit’s language, he can’t recognize a woman’s, and he's completely hindered in becoming the spiritual leader his wife craves.

“A wife's emotions, actions and even her attraction to her husband are directly related to his spiritual condition,” says Nair. "She is like a mirror provided by God to reflect how Christlike, or more accurately how un-Christlke he’s being. If a man is truly willing to be discipled toward becoming more and more like Christ, his marriage will inevitably be made stronger or restored.”

In reading “Discovering the Mind of a Woman,” men can learn to accept responsibility and use all life events to discern how they are or are not being Christ-like. For more information, email ken@christquestministries.com.