Seaside Dojo offers martial arts training as way to combat bullying
According to a nationwide study of children in grades six through 10, nearly one of every three U.S. children is affected by bullying. Bullying is defined as verbal or physical behavior designed to confront someone less powerful.
Attacks can include spreading rumors; making sexual comments or gestures; or belittling someone about religion, race, looks or speech, in addition to the commonly recognized behavior of hitting, slapping or pushing.
The study reported that children who were targets of bullies had increased difficulty making friends, and they often suffered from low self-esteem. It also revealed that children who did the bullying were more likely to have poor grades and to smoke and drink alcohol.
Studying the martial arts can help children who might be victimized by bullies by instilling in them a high level of self-esteem.
Children who study the martial arts are guided through a system of training that creates a series of consecutive, small successes that are designed to build confidence and skills. In addition, martial arts instructors emphasize and encourage the building of friendship among their students; friendships are based on respect and courtesy. For children who are at risk of becoming bullies, the martial arts allow for a healthy physical and emotional outlet, while teaching a philosophy of respect for others, self-discipline and positive behaviors.
"It’s been our experience that the most timid children can gain amazing self-confidence through martial arts training. We’ve also seen many bullies change their ways with the right encouragement, guidance and instruction," said Sensei Ted Dabbs, head instructor of Seaside Dojo in Lewes.
Dabbs suggests to parents that if their child or someone they know is exhibiting behavior that suggests he or she is either a victim or perpetrator of bullying, they can contact him at Seaside Dojo to discuss how martial arts training can help.
For more information on anti-bullying programs or how to enroll in martial arts school, go to www.SeasideDojo.com or contact Dabbs at 302-448-9833 or email teddabbs@mac.com.
